I know it is easier to say than to do, but you really need to make some changes from the root. If you want to gain sexy confidence around men, you need to turn off that negative inner voice that prevents you from being happy and satisfied.
I know it always tells you that you are not beautiful and attractive and that a guy you like will probably choose another girl. And if you think like that once or twice, chances are that you will continue to think like that every time you get in a situation like that.
That’s why you need to tell yourself that you are beautiful and that any man who wins you over is damn lucky. Only with positive thinking you will get where you really want to be.
2. Don’t be afraid to say your opinion
I know that most of the time you keep your mouth shut. You are afraid that people will judge you because you have a different opinion. But if you want to get that sexy confidence, you need to learn how to talk in front of men.
You need to learn what they like to talk about, and make them interested in you. When you do that, you will gain that self-confidence you needed so much, and you will attract all the good guys. Also, whenever you have a different opinion from a man you are talking to, be brave enough to admit that to him.
In that way, he will see that you are not someone who will just nod your head to everything he says and that you have your own opinion about certain things. That will make any man attracted to you, and they will want to get to know you better.
3. Be feminine
What is a better way to gain sexy confidence than to actually be sexy? So, if you think that you still need something that would attract all the guys in your yard, then try with something that no man can resist—be sexy. I am not saying that you should wear things that you don’t like, but find something that you feel comfortable in and that is sexy.
Act like a lady in public, so everyone sees how classy and polite you are. Take care of yourself by eating healthy food and exercising. Find your life balance, and start being happy and satisfied with the life you have. When you do that, you will have so much positive energy that you will attract every man who looks at you.
And you will realize that all the effort you made to become the best version of yourself actually paid off.
4. Don’t be ashamed to flirt with guys
Maybe the reason guys don’t notice you is that you don’t talk to them so much. Maybe they would like to have someone who tells them more about themselves.
So, don’t be ashamed to get to know as many men as you can. That is a great way to practice your conversational skills and to get that sexy confidence you need so much. Also, when you relax a bit, try to flirt with a guy but in a quiet way, so he doesn’t actually get it.
Be subtle, and let him tell you more about himself. If you feel confident enough, ask him some tricky questions, and tease him. That will make him go over the edge, and he will be thrilled with you. And that my dear is always a good way to win a man’s heart.
5. Don’t let your past define you
Maybe you had many bad love experiences before, but it doesn’t mean that it will be like that this time. So, whatever you do, don’t let your past define you.
If you were shy before and if you saw that is not a good way to attract guys, work on changing that. Be more open and talk about yourself. If you just pay attention to what people talk about, you will see that some of them talk about so much nonsense, so why wouldn’t you tell your opinion about something?
Change your mindset, and don’t let anyone or anything convince you that you can’t win over a great-looking guy. You have it in you, but it just needs to come out to the surface. And when it comes, you will be unstoppable.
6. Step out of your comfort zone
The worst thing that can happen to you is to stay stuck in your comfort zone and not do anything with your life because you don’t want to try new things. But if you want to gain that sexy confidence you crave so much, you need to step out of your comfort zone.
When you do that, you will realize that you were afraid of the wrong things all the time. You will see that happiness was in front of your nose the whole time, but you were too scared to catch it. You will see that being brave enough to try new things actually paid off and that you gained more than you thought.
And once you break free from all your fears, you will see that nothing is impossible if you really want it!